neo4j@user01-400TDA-400SDA:~$ neo4j status
Neo4j is running at pid 2251738
neo4j@user01-400TDA-400SDA:~$ ss -tulp|grep 7474
tcp LISTEN 0 50 [::ffff:127.0.0.1]:7474 : users:(("java",pid=2251738,fd=557))
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I answered in a rush - I forgot 10.x are internal IP addresses, nonetheless it must be something with your server (mine does localhost / 127.0.0.1 and the 128.x.x.x.
I also prefer to host Neo inside a docker image, so it is already an 'external' (to the laptop's IP) IP address.